Books like Come as you are

Come as you are by Emily Nagoski reads as informative, empowering. These 12 books share its genome — matched by how they actually read, not just their shelf label.

The state of affairs

Esther Perel · 2017

Both explore relationships & desire

70% genome match

Rewriting the Rules

Meg-John Barker · 2018

Both explore relationships & sexuality

70% genome match

The Erotic Mind

Jack Morin · 1995

Both explore sexuality & desire

65% genome match

Burnout

Emily Nagoski · 2019

Same nonfiction feel

61% genome match

Conversations on Love

Natasha Lunn · 2021

Both explore relationships

58% genome match

Attached

Amir Levine · 2010

Both explore relationships

68% genome match

Open

Jenny Block · 2008

Both explore sexuality

59% genome match

It's Perfectly Normal

Robie H. Harris · 1994

Both explore sexuality & relationships

69% genome match

Married women who love women

Carren Strock · 1995

Both explore sexuality & relationships

72% genome match

Erotic fantasies

Phyllis Kronhausen · 1970

Both explore sexuality & desire

69% genome match

Mars and Venus in the bedroom

John Gray · 1995

Both explore relationships & sexuality

59% genome match

Unmasking Autism

Devon Price · 2022

Same nonfiction feel

65% genome match